A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised
you for a
successful marriage. Could you please share with me
your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never
criticize your wife for
her shortcomings or when she does something wrong.
Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings
and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband
than you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many
people are
afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes
a mistake, he would look
around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at.
This is the start of a war. We should always remember
that when we point one finger at a person, the other
four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our
mistake too.
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